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Julie is an acclaimed speaker focused on helping humans find their true north. At its core, her work is about the obstacles we face as humans striving to thrive and how we can unlock our most authentic selves. She’s spoken at schools, companies, conferences, and more across the country, and her 2016 TED Talk “How to Raise Successful Kids—Without Overparenting” has been viewed over 7 million times.   

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How to Raise Successful Kids–Without Overparenting

In this widely acclaimed talk, Julie draws on her research, conversations with educators and admission officers, and her own insights as a mother and the former dean of freshman at Stanford University to highlight the ways in which overparenting harms kids and prevents them from developing self-efficacy: the knowledge that one’s own actions lead to outcomes.

Listen as she offers practical strategies that underline the importance of allowing children to make their own mistakes and develop the resilience, resourcefulness, and inner determination necessary to become healthy, thriving adults.

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What It Means to Be Black in White Spaces

In this powerful talk on identity and community, Julie shares her experience as a Black and biracial woman growing up in white spaces. She found that even as she accomplished so much—graduating from Stanford University and Harvard Law School, working as a corporate lawyer and as Stanford’s first-ever dean of freshmen—she still couldn’t escape the grip racism, discrimination, and microaggressions had on her sense of self.

Listen as she shares how she found self-acceptance through the healing power of community. Her story is deeply personal, but its message is universal: people from marginalized communities will recognize echoes of their own experiences, and allies will learn how they can better show up, listen, and advocate for others.

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Throw Out the Checklisted Childhood

The world looks vastly different for kids today than it did for their parents. Everything is highly connected, fast-moving, and often overwhelming. As a result, many students feel lost, lonely, empty, unsure, insecure, or ashamed.

In this compassionate and inspiring talk, Julie encourages kids and educators alike to throw out the checklist of accomplishments they’ve been told will lead to a happy life—the classes they should take, the requirements they need to meet, the short list of colleges they must get into—and instead focus on finding the courage to be who they are.

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I’ve begun to peel away layers of fear of how the world would perceive me for doing what I love and have been gifted to do. You touched every nerve and impulse in my body. Thank you.

Your truth and raw honesty gave me a sense of permission to continue pushing to be my authentic self at all times, in all spaces.

You were beyond motivational and beyond inspirational. Thank you for giving me, and so many others, a lot to think about. Your words resonated with me in a way that very few ever have.

Thank you for channeling your experience in a way that put me in tune with myself.

I am moved by your stories and find myself reflecting on what I can do better; more accurately what our kids can do better for themselves.